Just thought I'd ramble a bit tonight...
It's amazing how much kids really change your life. When I was pregnant with Ella, Andrew and I both felt like, yeah our lives were going to change, but we'd still go out to eat, and do the things we really enjoyed. Before kids, we went out to eat at least once a week, we usually saw a movie (in the theater!) and sometimes two in one weekend! Plus, we watched them at home. We were really into it, analyzing them, comparing how they were made. For obvious reasons since Andrew worked in the business. And we just really enjoyed the experience of going to the movies. We played board games and were fairly competitive about it (at least I was. Sounds about right, huh?). ;-) I read all the time. ETC.
NOW, we go to a restaurant pretty much only when people are in town visiting. And I usually dread the experience because I picture Ella flying off the handle, screaming, throwing food, spilling drinks, etc. (The screaming and throwing food has certainly happened, and well we've had drink spillage a time or two too, but that's more in a shopping experience than restaurant). Usually my vision is much worse then the reality. ;-) We go to the movies about three times a year. We watch a movie together at home about once a month and that's usually in about 20 minute increments. We've cancelled our Netflix subscription for now because even the one-at-time plan was not being utilized. CAN YOU BELIEVE THAT?! Oh, and thank god for DVR! I can still stay addicted to tv with that little invention.
I have to read about books in my Bookmarks magazine as opposed to actually reading...Oh, and there was a time when I received my People magazine on Friday and had it read cover to cover by Saturday morning. Now, I have three issues waiting to be read!
Oh, and how often does Andrew get to play golf, oh, about four times a year (not including the four times in three days he plays during the Carnival of Golf).
And you should check out the inch of dust collecting on our board games shelf.
It may sound like I'm complaining. But really I'm not at all! Because, all that time is spent with our two beautiful daughters who make us smile and laugh, and we're utterly amazed by them on a daily basis. It's just astounding to me how much two people's lives can be changed sooo drastically in just a few short years by two other little people. I'm just reflecting, not complaining. :-)
Quick sidenote: Lily is climbing stairs! Last night we put the gate up in the girls' room and Andrew set Lily down in the hallway for a minute and went to grab something, he came back and she was on the fifth stair! We didn't even know she knew how to do that! And she's really good at it, not scared at all, and it seems like she's been doing it all her life. Now, we just need to teach her to not back into a sitting position when she is going up. Well, and teaching her how to come back down would be a good thing too.
Okay, I guess I'll sign off for now. No more random thoughts to add, except, dang, I still haven't added those photos, have I? and...must...go..to...bed...now....
6/14/2006
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